How to lead a high performing team

Sitting around a conference table. People staring at me, waiting for me to speak – to guide, to direct, to inspire, to challenge, to steer our drifting ship. I had just taken over as leader of a non-profit educational organization. It was a hot mess and I was terrified. I quickly learned that knowing a lot about leading teams and organizations is WAY different than actually leading teams and organizations. But there I was, in the job, with my Bad-News Bears team, trying to make something of a place everyone passionately believed in, but had no clue how to make work.

8 Steps to lead a high performing team

From that experience, and in many observations of leaders and teams since, I’ve learned a ton about how not to lead a team. So this is my grown-up team-leadership wish list and the advice I find myself most often offering to clients whose teams are flailing.

1) Be sure it’s actually a team

Just because a set of individuals report to you as their boss doesn’t mean they are a team. It also doesn’t mean you can’t foster a spirit of cooperation, collegiality, and esprit de corps among them, but they’re not a team. Having interdependent work that requires individuals to rely on and collaborate with each other makes a team. To foster true, quality teaming behavior, you need to make sure the work everyone does actually requires collaborative behavior. You definitely want to avoid a pure “hub and spoke” model of leadership, where you are critical to every type of interaction, and all decision paths lead to you. But if the work your people do isn’t interdependent work, the way you approach creating cohesion is different. And that’s a conversation for another time.

2) Make it safe to fight

Once you’ve determined where the interdependence lies among those you lead, and where real collaborative behavior is necessary, the first thing you need to make sure of is that conflict can surface and be addressed. Psychological safety is necessary for people to feel they can speak their minds, disagree with a colleague, offer dissenting views to prevailing thinking, and when it comes to you as their boss, freely say “hard things” – including addressing things you do that aren’t helpful. One of the things you must do to create these conditions is to regularly ask for feedback and then act on it. And at least once a quarter, do a round-robin “air clearing” session. During these sessions all members of the team spend 15 minutes with everyone in a short-series of 1x1s to check in, share feedback, and offer suggestions for strengthening their connections.

3) Find ways to say “I love you” to each other

Not necessarily with the words, (though that’s fine too!), but with actions that make the words true. At Navalent, we freely express our love and regard for each other. My partner and co-founder Mindy says in our video, “We love our work, and we love each other, and that changes the work.” The mutual regard you require among your team does a lot to determine the strength of your team, especially how well they respond during setbacks or unforeseen challenges. If you allow mediocre relationships to fester, the team is weakened. Of course you can’t force “love” – mutual regard, friendship, or deep care – but you can model it, and you can reinforce it when you see it. And accept that it will take time (sometimes years) to create. Make sure that it’s not “so tight” that onboarding new members is impossible. But, make your team feel like a place folks can’t wait to be, where they feel a deep sense of regard and care from you and their colleagues.

4) Don’t create false egalitarianism

One of the worst mistakes leaders make, under the guise of creating a sense of inclusion, is to establish a sense of “being equals.” As human beings, equality is great, and necessary. But as part of organizations, everyone knows equality isn’t real when it comes to the importance of certain work, the level of performance from the most seasoned professionals, or the relative criticality among projects. Acknowledging that not all work or talent is equal, and therefore resourced and rewarded differently, is honest and liberating. Treating everyone “the same” is one of the most disrespectful, un-inclusive things a leader can do, no matter how well intended you may be.

5) Pull the weeds

Firing people that report to you is one of the hardest things a leader must do (especially if you hired them), but if you let sub-par performance languish, you’re being cruel to the underperformer, and to the rest of the team. You’re also confusing them about which standards you actually care about. The reality, especially as teams evolve and things change, is that some folks aren’t able to adapt or contribute as needed. Don’t ignore that when it happens. Be compassionate, but be decisive.

6) Create belonging in every direction

Cohesion on a team is a vital ingredient to high performance. A sense of belonging to one another is strengthened when it forms in all directions – vertically and horizontally. If you create “hub and spoke” cohesion, then the team belongs “to you alone” and that’s unhealthy. They also need to belong to each other. A sense of belonging forms when people no longer feel the need to self-edit, hide themselves, or become guarded. They trust the motivations of you and their colleagues, and innately believe everyone has each others’ backs. As a leader, you can foster this among your team, not just with them, by how you make key assignments for projects, pair people with folks they don’t routinely work with, and create pathways among the team that reduce reliance on you as decision maker or problem solver. This is especially important if your team is distributed, virtual, or doesn’t interact daily. Balance the use of video and chat technologies like Zoom and Slack with in-person time together. The cost is well worth the investment.

7) Amputate collusion immediately

An inevitable side effect of cultivating a strong team is the moment where it regresses to collusion. “Clique-yness,” gossip, and other forms of backchannel communications are a cancer. And as the leader, you may not even realize you’re part of it. When someone comes to you and says, “Hey, have you noticed Sharon’s kinda ‘different’ (see air quotes) this week? I don’t know what’s going on, but do you have any coaching for how I can get around her mood?” You may feel tempted to “help” and take the bait. The only appropriate answer as a leader is, “That sounds like a great question for Sharon. Shall I call her in so you can ask her?” The moment you let your people know that you won’t tolerate one ounce of that stuff, they will step up to more mature, open, and direct communication with each other, and with you.

8) Stay connected to the bigger stories

The story of your team is nested within numerous other stories: the story of your department or region; the story of your company and industry. The purpose you serve ladders up to those purposes. Each member of your team brings their own story and purpose which nests within those larger stories. These broader stories help sustain bigger perspectives, keeping us connected to a larger mission and grounded in the impact we can ultimately make together. During intensely demanding seasons, or challenging setbacks, staying connected to the broader stories of which we are a part creates resilience and reserves of optimism when hope flags. Talk about these broader stories regularly as a team. Ask about how people stay inspired by their purpose. Affirm those who embody your shared purpose when you see it. There’s always a bigger story to celebrate.

Leading a team

Leading a team is one of leadership’s most difficult requirements. And to be sure, one of its greatest privileges. To care for and develop treasured colleagues for a season of their career can be one of the greatest contributions for your own career. Pay very close attention to how you do it. Your team will be telling stories about you at dinner tonight with their loved ones. Do you know what they will say?

 

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Ron has a thirty-year track record helping executives tackle challenges of strategy, organization, and leadership — from start-ups to Fortune 10s, non-profits to heads-of-state, turn-arounds to new markets and strategies, overhauling leadership and culture to re-designing for growth.

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